- "Don't go out with this other guy if you really like the guy you're dating now."
- "It is a NO-NO to date 2 guys at the same time."
- "Yes, you're a player if you're dating one guy and you go out on a date with another."
- "Who are these guy friends who are telling you this stuff? They're crazy..you can go out with this other guy if you want..it's only been a few weeks."
And then when I find out some of these guys haven't had a relationship in 5 years, I'm kind of puzzled. Hmm...so what is this then?! Do you finally want a relationship? Is this how it goes in your world? Date for a few weeks/months, then move on? What are you looking for? What are we doing?!
Yeah, dating completely has me puzzled.