Who are the Joneses? is a blog that goes against the typical American ideal that more is better. Reducing clutter, buying less, and saving money (gasp!) is what the cool kids do.
Friday, February 27, 2009
How's the spending going?
I've been busy this week applying for jobs and studying! During my lunch breaks at work, I'm bringing my lunch into the conference room and studying hard for an hour for my AFOQT; some things are definitely easier to study than others for sure!
This weekend I'm going to resist any spending on meals or activities although I did mention to boyfriend that I would like to go bowling; (we haven't done that since our first date in September 2007!) so we'll see what happens.
I hope you're all having a blessed week and that you all have a great weekend! :)
Thursday, February 26, 2009
Beverly Hills, 90210 to Green Acres
Disappointing news
Oh well, if I continue where I am, I should most definitely be debt-free by April, which I'm not going to get upset about! :) One month set-back. I can take it!!
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
What would you do? or WTF?!

- He's not getting engaged until Christmas Day.
- He wants me to take out a $3300 loan so that he can buy the ring.
- They won't be married until Fall of 2010.
It's February. December is still 10 months away. Why the HECK would he want to buy a ring now?! 10 months!!!! What happens if they break up next month or even six months from now? What would he do with the ring? He'd have to sell it and not even get close to what he paid for it. 10 months! What the heck is he thinking? I don't get it. So basically that's what I wrote in my email. I would love to help him, but if he saves up $330 a month, he would be able to pay for it in cash. Shoot, put it in a high interest savings account and end up making a little extra money! If anything were to happen between them, God forbid, he wouldn't have to deal with selling a ring and he would have a nice chunk in his savings account.
Honestly, I don't know what he is thinking. It is just asinine to buy an engagement ring in February (on CREDIT no less) than to save up the cash to pay in full in December.
What do you think? What would you have told him?
Monday, February 23, 2009
Yikes! $50 for two weeks

This past weekend...
Anyway, after the animal fair, E and I went to the library and got a few books, I got one organization and it put me in the mood to purge my clothes. I dumped everything out from the closet and my dresser and put it on my bed. I then took a garbage bag and filled it for the Goodwill and took the rest to two different used clothing stores. My grand total for selling clothes? $9.30. And I had a ton of clothes left over. I don't know why they don't take some of the items, they're clean, no rips or stains and barely any signs of wear. Ugh. BF was frustrated, "You have really nice stuff, what gives?" So I took about 2 bags of stuff to the Goodwill. I have an extremely small closet so any free room will only help. Plus, it's said that one only wears 20% of their wardrobe 80% of the time, why have those clothes take up all that space?
All in all, the weekend was pretty nice (despite working) and I got some things accomplished which always makes me happy! BF and I are really trying to watch our money (as if this is news) so we tried to resist going out to eat.
Friday, February 20, 2009
Thursday, February 19, 2009
Mom's B-day: Ideas?
Because my parents said they're trying to get focused on their debt, I thought a few PF books would be good for them. Even though my parents are fans of Suze Orman (maybe it's an age thing?) I'm a big fan of Mary Hunt. Last month I devoured Debt-Proof Living and am in the process of finishing Debt-Proof Your Marriage so I thought maybe the latter would be a good present for her; she told me she would like to have the book.
What do you think? Should I send her the book for her birthday or does that seem...what's the word...lame? Should I spend the $30 on flowers for her?
I don't know what to do! I thought the flowers would be a nice surprise but at the same time they won't be clutter when they're gone; the book on the other hand could perhaps jump start them and get them excited about focusing on their finances.
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Saving $$ by using the Internet

Yesterday I posted how I was going to get my study guide materials for the AFOQT; unfortunately my used bookstore had none of the materials so I figured I'd have to hit the major bookstores such as Borders and Barnes and Noble. Before I went to the stores, I hopped online, typed in "Borders coupons" and "Barnes and Noble coupons." Voila! Borders had a 20% off coupon (geez, just found a 30% off coupon. Dang!) and Barnes and Noble had a 10% off coupon. I saved a little over $5.00 total and it took me about 30 seconds total to conduct the searches and print. Easy!
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
Just slap me with some reality..

A small ray of hope for today, I'm seriously considering joining the Air Force and becoming an Officer; I was an AF brat my entire life and was married to the military for over 6 years..I think I would be a great candidate and would enjoy my time in. Especially in this economy, you cannot ask for better job security (and benefits) than being a military officer; I spoke with a recruiter today and they administer the AFOQT the first Thursday of the month which means I need to get ON it if I want to test in March. On my lunch break today I'm going to get my study guides and study study study. This is not the first time I have thought of joining; I was first thinking about it when I graduated with my Bachelors but then decided to go on and get my Masters degree; the second time was last year and I didn't take the test because I got the other job with the county. (HA!)
Friday, February 13, 2009
Fundraisers: Do you participate?
My little 8 year old godson, L, is participating in the Jump Rope for Heart for his school (in honor of his late Great Grandfather whom his middle name was named after) My BFF in Florida emailed me asking if I could help him out a little bit. Of course! He's my baby and while I haven't seen him since 2005 or 2006 (it's been so long I can't even remember!), I always try to help out when I can. I have three godsons, L, is the middle child; their mother always them to participate in only two fundraisers per year, and only ones in which they feel are important. Personally, I think this is a good policy--only allow children to do participate in things about which they are passionate.
So I talked to BF, my mom, and the ex, they all helped chip in and we got a nice tidy sum for him and we even surpassed his computer fundraising goal. :) I know he's going to be excited to hear his name called at the presentation and know that he did what he could.
So, when it comes down to it, do you participate in fundraisers like these? Do you allow your children to participate in fundraisers at school? Do you support your friends' children or your nieces and nephews? Do any of you have a policy on what you donate to and what you don't?
Wednesday, February 11, 2009
Frustrated
Anyway, I am slotted to get hired on by the county whenever they're out of a hiring freeze. People, I applied for this job November 2007--went through all the phases (written exam/panel interview), got a call July 2008 saying they wanted to finish the process (drug test/psych eval/background check), and I passed it all. I was supposed to be hired December 2008. It's now February and with this ***Damn recession, I don't know WHEN I will be hired. The thing that sucks? I'm NEXT on the list. The very next person to be hired and I'm still at my current job. Hating it.
BF took me to lunch today and we talked about my options. Basically I've come to the point where if I'm not hired on by June 1st, I'm going to move to the Dallas/Fort Worth area. I LOVE Tucson with a passion but as one of my co-workers (who also hates this place) put it, "Tucson is dried up." I agree. There are no jobs here (like other areas) and I can't sit on my hands all day waiting for something to happen.
I called my Dad and told him the news and not to tell my mom because she would be calling me EVERYDAY saying, "When are you moving down here? Did you find a job yet? Any news?" And I just can't handle that.
I'm not too excited about the move although I would be close to my family and my BFF and her son in Oklahoma. BF wants to live in Texas eventually but he doesn't think it's the right time for him; so I have to figure out what to do there. Yay. <---Insert Sarcasm.
I don't know what to do. At. All. I'm stressed and I'm not happy. And that is not good. :(
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
It's about time!

Last week, my mom announced to me that she and my dad were going to finally take their finances seriously. Well, it's about time Mom! You're only 56 and Dad's 58, I think you should take them seriously!
Now don't get me wrong, my parents aren't ignorant or stupid people, they just are spenders. They've always made good money and they just like to buy things, and well, they have taste. Taste doesn't come cheap. Lucky for them, they have impeccable credit so my parents can generally get whatever they want whenever they want it.
- $20,000 for a new electric fence for the driveway? No problem.
- $15,000 for a new driveway? No sweat.
- $5,000 for a slab of granite for the new countertop? Eh, whatever.
You know it's bad when I told my mom I was going to be debt-free next month and she says laughing, "Good for you honey, I don't know where you get it from, it's not our family's way!"
Well, how do you tell your mom that you've watched them and their spending habits and the errors that they've made in their spending for the past 26 years and you know what not to do? I guess I could be thankful for that!
Now on the upside, I'm also grateful that my Dad taught me to be generous and give to charity and those less fortunate. My Dad is a giver. Always has been. He would give a stranger the shirt off of his back if he had to (I'm sure he probably has!). I don't fully remember the details but in Christmas 2007, he met a woman (a complete stranger) who was stranded at work or at a bus stop on a cold night who didn't have a ride home. So, my Dad being my Dad, gave her a ride home. On their way to her house, she was explaining her family situation and told my Dad that she was having a difficult time providing Christmas for her family. (Something like she was laid off her full-time job and had to get a part-time job, etc). He wrote down her address went out and spent a couple hundred dollars and delivered some gift cards to this family so that they wouldn't go without. They were extremely grateful, you could see it on their faces. But hey, that's my Dad; always looking out for people. :)
Dear John D. Sutter of CNN,

Friday, February 6, 2009
Do you pick up pennies?

Anyway, I was just curious to see if anyone else bends down to pick up change. A penny saved is a penny earned, no?
Goals
Miss M from M is for Money asked me what my goals were once I become debt-free (next month!). I have a lot of things that I would like to do but this is what I have so far:
- $15,000 to my Emergency Fund
- $150/month to my Freedom Account which will cover car expenses, clothing, pets, and vacation
- Save up enough money for my family's trip to DisneyWorld in December; I'm aiming for about $500 so I have plenty of money. Since my parents are Disney Vacation Club Members , I get my room for free; I only have to worry about tickets, airline, and food.
- Save roughly $15,000 for my half of our trip around the United States.
I'm going to keep my list short because I don't want to get discouraged. I think this is a good list of goals so far but we'll see if anything changes.
Thursday, February 5, 2009
Credit age?
Via Fabulously Broke in the City
Not too bad considering I'm 26! I'll be sure to take this again once I'm debt-free! I'm sure that will boost me up. :)
OMG. OMG. OMG.

*$543.00--Tax return
*$1300.00--Emergency fund
*$300.00--Checking account
Wednesday, February 4, 2009
Inner excitement

You know when you just get really excited about something and you feel like you're bubbling inside and it can't be contained? Yeah, that's how I feel whenever I think about our trip across country. I know that each day brings me closer to the day we say goodbye to normalcy for a year and become fulltimers. Hehe. Fulltimers.
The lists are being made, plans are being concocted, and ideas are being hatched. We continue to talk about what we want to see and do and people we want to visit.
I can't wait! :)
Ooh, a good find!

Giving to charity when in debt? Yes or No?

Tuesday, February 3, 2009
Words to live by...
-Mrs. Child, author of The American Frugal Housewife, 1833.
I just need to stop reading the news...
Monday, February 2, 2009
Time to switch my cable to Comcast..
(CNN) -- Super Bowl fans in Tucson, Arizona, caught a different kind of show during Sunday's big game. Just as Cardinals' superstar Larry Fitzgerald watched himself sprint into the end zone on the stadium's Jumbotron during Sunday's Super Bowl, 10 seconds of eye-popping pornographic imagery "flashed" across the screens of those watching at home.
"We are mortified by last evening's Super Bowl interruption, and deeply apologize to our customers for the inappropriate programming," Comcast Cable said in a written statement.
"Our initial investigation suggests this was an isolated malicious act," the statement added.
Comcast, and several local television stations that carried the signal, say they are currently investigating what caused the interruption.
"It appears this material was only viewed by some Comcast customers," local Tucson television station KVOA-TV said in a written statement. Television station KVOA added "when the NBC feed of the Super Bowl was transmitted from KVOA to local cable providers and through over-the-air antennas, there was no pornographic material," KVOA President and General Manager Gary Nielsen said in a separate statement.


